what to do when you're sad

Hello people!! so you just broke up with your boyfriend/girlfriend, you failed at something, someone upset you, you're just mad at someone or the whole world, here are a few things you should do.

1. so positivity is key- stay away from negative thoughts & force yourself to go to your happy place 
2. exercise- go to the gym, might meet a new hottie 
3. clean up, dress up, call up a friend and go grab lunch 
4. put some make up on, look cute go to the mall 
5. get online and google funny stuff - vines do it best 
6. get yourself a bottle of wine and watch a chick-flick 
7. get good rest 
8. post up some inspiriting quote 
9. take some happy selfie and put it on the gram 
10. get to do your favorite hobby- braid some hair, weave a basket, feed some chicken, milk a cow.... whatever floats your boat  

Things you need when you're grieving

hello guys!!! so this week has definitely been the most challenging for me. Most of you may know that I have just lost an uncle of mine. We were not so close but he was the youngest of my moms sibling. My mom isn't doing so well but my siblings and I have come up with ways to get her not to grieve for too long and forget that she is still alive lol. so below are some of the things we did.

• African parents always have something to complain about, so we tried to eliminate the things that she usually starts yelling about

1. dishes were done 
2. her favorite food was cooked 
3. house cleaned 
4. the door was closed- nobody came in unless they lived here or were important 
5. we slept on time 
6. let her watch her CNN 
7. bought her some calling cards to call home to kenya
8. gave her a phone to call her friends since she just washed her phone recently 
9. made her get some sleep
10.  talked to her about how stupid kids are at school to destruct her from getting bored 
11. used the youngest bro to sweet talk her about everything and anything 

• seriously all the above has helped her so much and in return we don't feel as bad cause it could really have been bad. Our situation right now isn't over, so we still trying to figure things out day by the day until we can forget. Things never go back to normal... we just have to get back to the usual. 

Top 10 Best dressed TV show characters

Teen Wolf- HOLLAND RODEN

Modern Family- SOPHIA VERGARA

New Girl- ZOOEY DESCHANEL

Arrow- STEPHEN AMELL

White Collar- MATT BOMMER 

Scandal- KERRY WASHINGTON 

Pretty Little Liars- LUCY HALE 

Revenge- ASHLEY MADEKWE

Hart of Dixie- RACHEL BILSON

what to wear to church

Haloo everyone! although am going thru a tough time right now, just wanted to post my happy moments at church and the outfit I was wearing. Hope you guys enjoy and comment. God bless!!!

Hard Times

So we been going thru a lot of things lately. Dad has been out of the country for a while now. Dad leaving was one of the hardest things have ever gone thru in my life. The adjustment took a great toll on me and my mom more than anyone else. We have been trying to move on and live but we were not ready for the change. Life sure is hard but to me its seems like every time I take a step forward, I fall back 10 steps.  so on top of us getting better jobs to afford the house we are living in, trying to fix up cars that keep breaking down due to the fact that they are old and the weather has been terribly cold, we still don't got it together. Dad isn't coming back anytime soon. I can't even go to school anymore, my sis isn't in school either.
This has just been really hard on us. It has put so much stress on us and poor health on my mother that we are not thinking straight for ourselves. Been praying to find a way out of this but there is just so much negativity around that nothing good is coming around. Last night we got news that our dearest uncle, my moms youngest brother had just passed away and being in a stumble that we are in right now, nobody is holding themselves together. The only reason why am writing this is too get to my almost happy place. Writing gives me a peace of mind and takes me to a world of my own. I wish someone could tell me how to get out of this successfully since every time I try to get out, I get sucked back in.
HOW THE HECK DO PPL DO THIS!!!!

THE CHUBBY BUNNY MARSHMALLOW CHALLENGE

Eos Lip Balm Collection (+playlist)

HOT SEXY CELEBRITIES IN THEIR 30s

 Chris Hemsworth- age 30 (THOR)

                                     






















Matt Lanter- age 30 (90210)

Henry Cavill- age 30 (SUPERMAN)

Paul Wesley- age 31 (vampire diaries)

Stephen Amell- age 32 (arrow)

William Levy- age 33 (world sexiest man)

Channing Tatum- age 33 (magic mike)

Ryan Goslin -age 33 (The Notebook)

Chris Pine- age 33 (Star Trek)

Ian Somerhalder- age 34 (vampire diaries)

Matt Bomer- age 36 (suits)

Orando Bloom- age 37 (pirates of the Caribbean)

David Beckham- age 38 (soccer)

Leonardo Dicaprio- age 39 (The Great Gatsby)

FRESH LOOKS

Helllooo Everyone, look its not me. What is everyone up to. The sky is crying over here which means am stuck in doors but no complaints. Rain is always better than snow. Just wanted to share a few fashion looks/ ideas I saw on tumblr and fell in love with. ENJOY!!!!

20 HOT CELEBRITIES IN THEIR 20S 2014

HOT HEARTBREAKING CELEBRITIES IN THERE 20s

1. One Direction- Liam Payne-age 20, Niall Horan- age 20, Harry Styles- age 20, Zayne Malik age 21, Louis Tomlinson- age 22 
2. Liam Hemsworth- age 23 -Miley's ex fiance 
3. Alex Pettyfer- age 23 - magic mike, I am number 4 
4. Robert Pattinson - age 27 - Twilight 
5. Justin Beiber - age 21 
6. Kellan Lutz- age 28 -Twilight 
7. Zac Effroen- age 26 -The Lucky One 
8. Taylor Lautner - age 21 -Twilight 
9. Kit Harington- age 26 -Game of Thrones 
10. Colton Haynes- age 25 - Arrow 
11. Harding- age 27 - Pretty Little Liars 
12. Zac Roerig- age 28 -Vampire Diaries 
13. Michael B. Jordan-age 27 -Friday Night Lights 
14. The Wanted- Siva Kaneswaran- age 25, Max George-age 22, Nathan Sykes -age 20, Jay McGuiness- age 23, Tom Parker- age 22 
15. Austin Butler - The Carrie Diaries 
16. Josh Bowman- age 25 - Revenge 
17. Jaime Bower- age 25 -The Immortal Instruments 
18. Steven Mcqueen- age 25 - Vampire Diaries 
19. Michael Trevino - age 29- Vampire Diaries 
20. Lorgan Lerman -age 23 - Percy Jackson